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The 5 Second Decision

“You will never”... how many of you have been told that, said that or worse, believed in that? Who you become; what you have, what you think and feel these are all things that are based around one capability. A capability I might add, that we all possess. This is the ability to make a decision. Not a decision for your parents, your siblings, your friends, but for YOU. It’s that simple. You see something, you go for it. You want something, you do everything you can to achieve it. You’re probably going to sit there and tell me, it’s not that simple. There are a thousand and ten variables that come with making an informed decision.   What is being “informed” anyway?? If you’re the type of person who says this- you have been living a life of excuses. Making a decision is simple. Simple doesn’t mean easy. Someone once said, “Indecision means the door is still closed.” Meaning- you are closed off to opportunity.   You are stuck in a small frame of mind. That being s...

Why Dreamers Love Chaos

You can’t escape it. It’s all around us. It’s in every second of every minute, in every hour that complied makes up our days. What is “it” I am referring to? It my fellow readers is CHAOS. It’s in our minds, it fills our bodies, and it’s even in the air around us. It even floats off other people! It’s like every time someone else in this world exhales, poof, out comes more chaos. Question is, are you awake enough to see it? What is chaos? Well, if you look in a dictionary it’ll tell you something like “complete disorder or confusion” which in my opinion sounds flat out negative. Don’t you think? Let’s look at the word ‘Disorder’ and what the opposite of that implies for a moment. What does it mean to be in ‘order’?   Just typing that word makes me feel mediocre. ORDER is boring. Order means you aren’t thinking outside the box. You are very much in it. I’ll bet those people who enjoy ‘order’ are those 9-5-ers, who do the same routine, day in and day out. BUT what if chaos “...

It all starts with YOU

Recently I’ve had to take a step back and do some serious re-evaluating of my life. I was falling “victim” (if you will) to an overwhelming wave of emotions. To some that would seem really... normal. People do go through different strides of emotion on a daily basis. However, when that wave hits you like a god damn tsunami and you don’t have to first clue on how to save yourself, now we’ve got something a little more detrimental going on.   When a person feels a certain way whether its happiness, sadness, anger... whatever it is- it’s always associated with an underlying reaction to an event that has either happened in the present or like most, an unresolved situation creeping up from the past. The first rule of thumb: There is a cause and effect for everything we think, feel and do. Oh... you thought your feelings just impacted you... WRONG. What you feel is connected to what you are thinking. What you think stems from a past situation or from the present. Our feeling...

Part 1- Invent yourself then reinvent yourself

Do you ever wonder if there is more? Like right now in this very moment, you are not living up to your potential? What is it exactly that you should be doing? Do you know? Change begins by questioning... questioning everything. Why do you do what you do? Why do you say the things you say? What do you see yourself doing 5 years from now? Is what your currently doing contributing to helping you get there? Paint a picture in your head. Think about a place where you are doing what you love. A place where money doesn't hinge on what you do. Everything in life is free right now. Where would you be?  Stay focused on that place. Now think, what do you want to be surrounded by? Are there big palm trees and a beautiful ocean view in your mind? or maybe snowy trees and a small candle lit cottage, perhaps your place of solitude isn't even on earth. For all i know you could be thinking about floating around in space!  Remember nothing in this picture we are ...